Fort Worth Date Night: How The Grinch Saved Christmas (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG
December 10, 2009

It always amazes me when December begins to roll around how cranky so many become. Sure, the holidays are coming up, but, apparently, everything leading up to that is actually quite a beating. Even more shocking is what people are complaining about.

The other day, a fellow gym-goer complained that she wished everyone would just go away because she couldn’t get a close parking spot while holiday shopping. Really? Millions of homeless in this country and worldwide and you might have to walk an extra 100 feet to get to your destination? Poor baby.

The list goes on and on. The kvetching continues to range from “too many parties to attend this time of year” to “I have to be at two different places on Christmas and I don’t know how I’m going to do it.” Oh my! Call Dr. Phil or Dr. Drew. It’s time for an intervention. We have an epidemic on our hands people. There are too many Grinches.

A Grinch, of Dr. Seuss fame, is defined as “a person or thing that spoils or dampens the pleasure of others.” I don’t know about you, but, I love this time year. The weather gets a little chillier, the windows on the stores get more festive and neighborhoods begin to take on a personality with the adornment of holiday lights and decorations. There is no room for Grinches!

This year, however, there is one place where the Grinch is most certainly welcome. The Gaylord Texan is hosting their annual ICE! exhibit. This year’s theme is How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss. Two million pounds of ice were used to recreate life-size scenes straight out of the pages of the original classic.

According to the Gaylord Texan, “The unique attraction is created by 40 master artisans from Harbin, China, who magically transform 5,000 blocks of ice into the city of Who-ville. From the Grinch’s frozen mountaintop lair and 20-foot high slides to a variety of family photo opportunities and the picturesque Who-ville including feasting Who’s and Max the dog, the enchanting attraction is sure to make more hearts than just the Grinch’s grow three times in size.”

Of course, this will make a great family outing. And, yes, go with a friend or friends. But, trust me when I tell you that this will be one of the greatest Date Nights you will have. It is one of those experiences that, by the end, you will have experienced and felt many different emotions. The best part...they will all be positive ones. You will feel happiness and joy to laughter and amazement. The greatest part is that you will be sharing these emotions together. And, while you think that you two are going alone, you’ll actually be double dating with words like “Wow!” and “Oh my!”

www.gaylordhotels.com

Fort Worth Date Night: The Love Train (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG
December 03, 2009

With Thanksgiving in the rear view mirror and Christmas, Kwanzaa and Hanukkah just down the road, you may be asking yourself, “Will my significant other and I ever have any time alone?” This time of year, every weekend seems to be filled with parties, dinners, gift exchanges and driving around searching for the best holiday lights.

Have you thought about a quick weekend away? If not now, perhaps in January after your social life has slowed a bit? I traveled over the week of Thanksgiving. My favorite (and only) sister lives in Austin. But, rather than drive the three hours down Interstate 35, it was my perfect opportunity to do “research” for random romantic outings and I took the train.

Many people don’t know that there is an Amtrak train station in downtown Fort Worth. My tickets were purchased online and all I had to do was show up, print off my tickets on a kiosk and hop aboard. The chairs were oversized and comfortable. People were friendly and the train even offered a plug at every seat for a computer, a phone charger or your 42-inch flat panel. OK, so maybe leave your flat panel at home, but, you get the idea. It’s very accommodating. You are allowed to bring food on the train. For those who don’t, there is a dining car for seated meals and, also, a cafe car to get snacks, drinks and such.

The greatest part of the train that you two can share is just time. There are not a lot of distractions, the view of the countryside and back roads is charming and relaxing and you can get caught up on whatever it is you need to catch up on. Perhaps, even use the time to plan a future trip.

Go to www.amtrak.com and pick out a locale that will take you to a town that you are familiar or one you’ve never visited. Booking rental cars and hotels also are available from Amtrak’s Web site. Perhaps, the best advice when approaching a weekend away comes from the father of Taoism, Lao Tzu, who wrote, “A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.”

Fort Worth Date Night: Wound up from the holidays? Time to wine down (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG
November 24, 2009

When asked about family funny man George Burns replied, “Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.” I hope this is not your attitude when it comes to the holidays. Perhaps, spending a few days with family is just what you are looking forward to.

But, we all know that we eventually need a break. This week’s Date Night serves up just that – the perfect chance for just the two of you to spend some time alone for a couple of hours. This week, we’re headed to Grapevine.

I must admit, after touring several vineyards in the D-FW area, Delaney Vineyards is one of the best. On a recent Saturday afternoon, we put the top down and cruised to Grapevine for a tour and tasting. It far exceeded our expectations. Delaney Vineyards is open from noon to 5 p.m. Monday through Saturday.

The free tours are given on the hour and, depending on the guide, usually last about a half hour.

Our guide was great. He was pleasant, witty and knowledgeable. And, because no one else showed up at that time, we were given a private tour. He explained the amazing building, the art inside and a little about the architecture. Then, we moved outside to discuss the grapes, the vineyard, the harvesting seasons and much, much more. At the end, we moved back inside to where all the magic happens. Our guide taught us how the wine was actually made as we were standing by the massive vats and other equipment. We even saw where the wine was bottled. It was educational, yet, entertaining.

Sure, it was great to learn about the wine. But, isn’t the wine tasting what it’s all about? This was the greatest part of our visit. For a mere $10, we were able to try six different Delaney wines. Handed a form and pencil, we also graded and made notes on our favorites. A great ending to a wonderful afternoon.

Which is why you two should head out there this weekend. You couldn’t ask for better weather. And, with a house full of family, what better time than to sneak out for a “breather?” So, if you come from the George Burns school of thought, don’t think of this week’s Date Night as an escape “to” somewhere. Better yet, think of it as an escape “from” someone.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.

www.delaneyvineyards.com

Fort Worth Date Night: Daddy Mac...or is it Mac Daddy? (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG
November 12, 2009

I'm happy. I can't wipe this smile off my face. While it doesn't take much to make me grin, it is nice when a restaurant is the cause of my joy. I'm a simple guy. I don't need much and don't require much. I like the same in my restaurants. Simple, to-the-point, great food, and comfortable.

At a recent birthday celebration at Mac's on 7th (2600 W. Seventh, Suite 153), I discovered why I love this place so much. In this day and age of being rushed in and rushed out, I was greeted by two very nice people who were engaging, pleasant and helpful in that they directed me to the party being formed on the patio.

As our party came together, it was time to herd our group of 20-plus to our tables. With a party that large, there was never a time that we were without a drink or without enough staff to attend to us. From the time you walk in, Mac's on 7th just makes you feel at home.

Much of this comes from the staff, but, the decor and finish out has a lot to do with this, as well. Mac's is just comfortable. I can't really pinpoint why. But, after being there for a couple of hours, laughing, eating and being engrossed in each other, it hit me that the calm and coolness of the interior is soothing, much like a spa or a resort. I must tell you this, that as a guy, one of the highlights of the evening was a trip to the "facilities." Yes, people, the restroom.

Many of the guys that night were interested in the college football scores. Checking our phones, moseying to the bar and asking anyone who might know. Had I known what I came across in the Men's Room, keeping up with the scores would have been a lot easier. As it turns out, they have flat panel tv's in "there." With the game on. With a ticker running across the screen of ALL the games that day. At this point, I'm quickly developing a big crush on Mac's on 7th.

But, we came to eat. And, eat we did. They have a great choice of selections. Salads, chicken, beef, seafood and so on and so on. One of my favorites is the Shrimp Paesano. This is a dish of shrimp basking in a lemony, garlicky, buttery pool of greatness. But, something happened while watching college football. I got in touch with my masculine side. In making my dinner choice, my testosterone took over and I went with the chicken fried steak. And, it did not disappoint. All of the Mac's restaurants have been known to have great chicken fried steak. Mac's on 7th raised the bar and, perhaps, was a major contributing factor in this smile on my face.

Since we were celebrating a birthday that night (and no one brought a cake for the guest of honor), our little section decided on several desserts in honor of our friend. And, the fact that she vetoed 32 spankings and opted for dessert. Good call!

As a dessert officianado, and also that I had to weigh in on the decision even though the evening was not all about me, I quickly spotted Red Velvet cake on the menu. Done! Get it! But, I kept reading. Mac's gives full disclosure and this cake comes from, perhaps, one of the all-time greatest Red Velvet locales...the Red Oven Bakery in Pantego (Arlington). This cake, along with it's cream cheese icing, is so incredibly good that I'm writing this column at 6:45 in the morning and my mouth is watering. Even better, Mac's is not shy about sharing. This one slice should have been brought out on a forklift.

The reason Mac's on 7th works is that you don't have to think while you are there. The place is comfortable where you and your date won't want to leave or, even better, just get lost in time. The service is great where you never have to take your attention off whomever you are with and the food is so good that you really don't want to be anywhere else. And, should you need to use the "facilities," you can totally get caught up on the day's games and get back to your table without being the typical guy who would rather watch football than being out on a Date Night. Mac's is brilliant. No detail has been left out; no stone unturned.

Fort Worth Date Night: Pizza that leaves one 'speechless' (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

November 05, 2009

I recently saw this past summer's romantic comedy, Love Happens. While there were funny moments, this movie, starring Jennifer Aniston and Aaron Eckhart, had far more serious undertones than the previews would have led you to believe. Nonetheless, it was a great movie and, for personal reasons, really struck a chord with me.

Without giving too much away (and it won't), one of the "cute" themes that permeated throughout the movie was Aniston and Eckhart's shared affinity for big, multisyllabic words. This added to the great chemistry between the two.

While this one was not in the movie, I recently had to find just the right word to describe a new discovery in my repertoire of eateries. I thought of the usuals: Yum, Awesome, Amazing...but, none of those fit. Based on a recommendation, I recently headed to Las Colinas to Cavalli Pizza (3601 Regent Blvd, Ste. 115, Irving).

To call this a pizzeria is an understatement. You see, this restaurant holds a unique distinction. According to their website (www.cavallipizza.com), "Verace Pizza Napoletana (VPN) is what Neapolitans quite literally call the perfect pizza. Fearful that the traditional pizza would soon be lost to cheaper ingredients and faster methods, a group of faithful Neopolitans formed an association to preserve the authentic Neapolitan pizza. And so the Associazione Verace Pizza Napoletana was born and with the support of the Italian government, a long list of exacting specifications was created to define this perfect pizza.

Now a rigorous certification process is required by any restaurant wishing to serve this delicious dish. There are only a handful of establishments in the entire United States that have earned this distinction and we are proud to announce that Cavalli Pizza is the first and only restaurant in the entire state of Texas to have this honor." Nearly all of their ingredients are imported directly from Italy. Even their oven was imported from Italy. Now that's Italian!

Their menu offers up many types of pizza, as well as, sandwiches, pasta dishes, salads and much more. All baked items are cooked in the authentic 900 degree wood-fired oven. My staple is always the Margherita pizza. However, I went with the Margherita Extra. This is made with, not just regular mozzarella, but, with what the menu calls, "Mozzerella di Bufala." The crust was flaky and thin, the sauce was fresh and subtle and the cheese and basil were the perfect dance partner to the rest of the ingredients. If the theory of Gestalt is applied here, the whole truly was greater than the sum of its parts.

Fortunately, Cavilli's offers up, not one, but, four different types of Nutella pizza as a "post-gorging" opportunity. Or, "dessert," as most of us call it. We went with the "La Nutella." Watching them put this piece of art together was like witnessing Van Gogh paint Starry Night. It starts with a thin layer of homemade dough, then, a healthy slathering of Nutella (chocolate hazelnut spread), dark chocolate and then, just to be sure that enough nutty flavor and crunch are present, a layer of fresh roasted Hazelnuts are added. This masterpiece is then topped with another thin pizza crust and popped in the oven. Now you have a pretty package and all in the world is right. Until you taste it and then, we are back to "finding just the right word."

So, what word would do Cavalli Pizza justice? I came up with one...ineffable. This is one of my favorites and so applicable at this moment. The dictionary defines "ineffable" as: 1) incapable of being expressed or described in words. 2) not to be spoken because of its sacredness. Many times after the first bite of a tasty dish, I'll say something poetic or articulate like, "Dude!" or "Wow!" But, not this time. The best way to describe the greatness of Cavalli's is a word which means not using words. This, perhaps, is the highest form of flattery.

Fort Worth Date Night: Frogs that go bump in the night (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG
October 28, 2009

Do you really need suggestions for something to do this weekend? Seriously? It's Halloween. I'm sure you've got your costume already laid out and your weekend planned. There is the annual Halloween party or, perhaps, you are headed to one of the area's great haunted houses. Or, maybe your idea of fun is to stay in and pass out candy. Whatever you decide, it will be the right choice with all that is offered up for this festive weekend.

But, maybe none of the above tickle your fancy. Fort Worth happens to be hosting another big celebration this weekend. It is TCU's Homecoming weekend. Since the Horned Frog's football team is currently ranked #6 in the country, you know they are going to do it up big. Football mixed with Halloween...it doesn't get much better than that!

Festivities start Friday night, October 30, with a Homecoming Parade and Pep Rally. According to TCU's website, "Enjoy the parade as it travels down Stadium Drive. Then join other Frog fans at the pep rally in the University Campus Commons area where FrogFest activities area taking place."

FrogFest begins at 6pm. This is a perfect Date Night to bring along the little ones, if you have some. There will be plenty of activities for them. Some of these include: bounce houses, pumpkin patches and carnival games. However, you don't need offspring as the big kids will enjoy running into old friends, jamming to a live band and sipping on some purple margaritas.

On Saturday, October 31, from 1-3 p.m., with reservations, you can enjoy what they are calling "one of the biggest tailgates in Texas." While soaking up the Saturday afternoon pre-game activities, TCU's website claims you will "enjoy a tex-mex buffet, featuring fajitas from Uncle Julio’s, a festive fall atmosphere and a cash bar featuring purple margaritas to get you in the mood to cheer on the Horned Frogs as they make the UNLV Rebels yell!"

Then, at 3 p.m., watch the kickoff of the TCU vs UNLV game. So, in less than 24 hours, you can be witness to a parade, a band, one of the top-ranked football teams in the country and still have time to celebrate Halloween in your own style on Saturday night. Hopefully, it will be in a fashion that is reminiscent of your youth. Where you rush home after a night of knocking on doors with a large bag or container. This, so eloquently summed up by author,Steve Almond, when he wrote, "Nothing on Earth so beautiful as the final haul on Halloween night."

TCU's official website is: www.tcu.edu

Fort Worth Date Night: Taking your relationship to new heights! (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

October 22, 2009

Can you believe it has been 23 years since the movie, Top Gun, was released? If you are a guy, you remember how cool it was to don a leather bomber jacket and feel as if you were in the cockpit of a fighter jet. I'm pretty sure the female faction all remember the fine acting and the amazing landscapes which make for a great backdrop to the movie. Who am I kidding? You guys are still talking about the "volleyball" scene.

Regardless, Top Gun introduced us to what really goes on in the planes and behind the scenes. Fortunately, this weekend, Fort Worth has the opportunity to experience some of those planes firsthand.

This Saturday and Sunday, October 24-25, marks the return of the Fort Worth Alliance Air Show. According to their official website (www.allianceairshow.com/), "The US Navy Blue Angels and the US Army Golden Knights are coming to North Texas. Bring the family for a full-day of daring aerobatic maneuvers, static displays (including Warbirds, helicopters and jets), simulators, children's activities, fun food and more."

Two perfect fall days are scheduled for this weekend. This is another one of those Date Night recommendations that is off the beaten path. It is not your normal "dinner and a movie." This air show is one of those dates that might start a tradition. If nothing else, it's a way of celebrating our men and women in uniform and the honorable work they do. Not to mention, you two, outdoors, experiencing a great time together.

Also, according to the air show's website, "Admission is FREE. Parking is $20 per vehicle. Gates are open from 9 am to 5 pm. The same show is held from approximately 10 am to 5 pm both days. The Fort Worth Alliance Air Show is a non-profit event with the goal of raising funds for beneficiaries in Fort Worth and Tarrant County."
This is one of those weekends where you need to be on the same page. You both have to want to participate. It just wouldn't be the same if one went solo. After all, like Maverick was told in Top Gun, "You never, never leave your wingman!"

Fort Worth Date Night: The solution to marital bliss...and world peace (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

October 15, 2009

There is one common, unsolicited complaint I have heard over the last few weeks. It has nothing to do with the economy, politicians or Chicago not being awarded the Olympics. Personally, it is one of those pet peeves that no one has any control over. I usually embrace the issue or don't give it much weight. Others, not so much.

Of course, I'm referring to the weather. We've all been hearing the moaning about the rain and the groaning about the cold. People often have short memories. Was it not just a few weeks ago everyone was complaining about the heat or that it was too dry? Perhaps, one of the downsides of living in Texas. Yes, the elements, as of late, feel like Seattle. I get it!

However, I will give the naysayers one tip of the hat. The cloudy, cool, rainy weather can eventually take its toll. Perhaps, it may even cause a few blues. And, as we all know, the blues are not conducive to romance or a happy relationship. Fortunately, in Fort Worth, we have several places that dish up just what the doctor ordered.

Sure, I could recommend some of the obvious solutions. Prozac? Maybe. The gym? Sure. Sugary bites of deliciousness? Done!

Cupcakes seem to have medicinal value. I have not checked WebMD for what all they cure, but, in my own blind study, cupcakes are pretty remarkable.

For that "I don't want to get out of bed" kind of day, head to Sublime Bakery (5512 S. Bellaire Drive, #A). Catherine Ruehle and her team make a chocolate cupcake with chocolate icing. Sounds pretty standard, right? Think again. Much like finding a prize in a box of Cracker Jacks, this cupcake has one, too. Let's just call it a dollop of chocolate ganache. And, when you find it, you will know. More importantly, your taste buds will love you for it. Just writing about chocolate ganache and thinking about how amazing that first bite is, I'm already starting to feel better.

Another great choice is Cupcake Cottage (5015 El Campo Ave.). I'm a big fan of the cookies and cream cupcake. How can you not be? To not like anything even remotely resembling an Oreo is probably in the same vain as burning the flag. Or, not liking puppies. You get the idea.

If you haven't heard about j.rae’s (935 Foch St.), you are missing out. Everything there is uber delicious. But, when it comes to cupcakes, I'm sticking with my favorite...the red velvet! One bite and your heart will melt. I would liken it to your first kiss or the first time you laid eyes on your future spouse. You'll stare at it a little longer and you'll get butterflies in your belly. This is the perfect choice to bring home when you say the wrong thing or upset your better half. Seriously, no one can stay mad after eating one of these red velvet cupcakes. Come to think of it, I may win the Nobel Peace Prize for discovering the possible solution to world peace...the red velvet cupcake from j. rae's.

Lastly, I can't forget Central Market. I love to support the small business owner. However, I've come across a cupcake at Central Market that should be illegal. If not, it might be banned, much like cell phones, while driving or operating heavy equipment. It is the tiramisu cupcake. First of all, the cake-to-icing ratio is perfect. Perfect, for me, that is. Primarily, because they are extremely generous in their portions. Next, is my love for tiramisu. An Italian dessert that literally means, "Pick me up." Once you've eaten one of these gems, you'll understand why it was so appropriately named.

Cupcakes are an important element in today's society. As you've read, they help with depression (please check with your doctor to verify these claims), they may lead to solving world peace (please check with your United Nations to verify these claims) and they just put a smile on your face (true). More importantly, cupcakes should never be underestimated or taken for granted. This is best summed up by a dialog that took place on The Simpsons:

Bart: It was an accident, ma’am!

Judge Constance Harm: “Don’t spit on my cupcake and tell me it’s frosting!”

Homer Simpson: (angrily) “What did she say about cupcakes?”

Fort Worth Date Night: The grass is always greener on the other side (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

October 08, 2009

We should all be familiar with old proverb, "The grass is always greener on the other side." This means that while we may love what we have, because we already have it, someone else's "whatever" is more appealing. Let me clarify this in culinary terms.

Have you ever been to McDonald's and just ordered a burger? However, your friend ordered a burger and fries. Being the kind friend, he or she offers you a fry or two. "Wow!" comes to mind as this may be the best fry you've ever eaten. Is it really the best fry? Or, are they that good because you didn't order any and should have?

Fort Worth has been abuzz lately about Paco & John Mexican Diner (1116 8th Ave, Fort Worth). So abuzzed that I met an old friend there recently to see what all the fuss was about. Based on the wait at lunch during the week, apparently Fort Worth is in the know.

My problem with food is that once I start thinking about it, I'm ready to eat right there; right now. This is why Mexican food restaurants are genius. Immediately upon sitting down, a very nice person, perhaps an angel from heaven, delivers chips and salsa. This is definitely a selling point in my decision-making when it comes to a dining locale. Paco & John's did not disappoint in the "chip" department.

Ordering was fun. Lots of great choices. Breakfast foods or lunch foods? And, the torta (Mexican sandwich) selection was fairly extensive. More importantly, what I saw being brought out to the tables was Ginormous! Let's just hope that quality trumped quantity.

So, I went with the chicken flautas and mi amigo went with the Cuban Press. What's a Cuban Press you might ask. It's a sandwich on the torta bread that is, according to Paco & John's menu, "Ham, roasted pork loin, cheese, pickles, heated." Our first thought when the Cuban Press was sat so eloquently in front of him, was, "Holy Smokes! That thing is huge!" He immediately began cutting into it and offered me up some of the goods.

Based on the ingredients, this would not be a sandwich I would normally order. However, after eating my first bite, what happened next might be described as a "religious experience." Harps were playing, angels were singing...I believe I even saw a strong, white light summoning me.

Did I have lunch envy? Absolutely! However, I do look forward to returning to check out much of their other offerings, from the great breakfasts to the higher-end entrees at dinner. Just make sure if you invite me, be fully prepared to share. As I have learned, the grass is often greener on the other side of the table.
www.pacoandjohn.com

Fort Worth Date Night: Pizza, Pinot and Patio: Alliteration at its best! (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

October 01, 2009

A crucial element of dating is all in the planning. Knowing where you are going, when you are going and all the details help alleviate problems later on when it's time to actually go on your date. However, it is fun occasionally to just see where the night takes you.

Which is exactly what happened to me recently. Someone close to me that we'll refer to as Plus One (+1) asked if I'd go with her to an upscale kitchen store to buy a wedding shower gift. How could I say "no" to that? What I did discover is that I make an awesome holder of the printed wedding registry. Apparently, I'm also very good at carrying the large, wrapped box to the car. Afterwards, our plan was to find somewhere to eat. Preferably, a place with a patio. So, off we go.

Our first stop was to a well-known, high-end wine bar & pizzeria. What we found was a long wait. Then, it was agreed upon that the dining destination would be Central Market. On the way there, +1 commented....correction...was adamant about "NEEDING" salad and pizza. Bingo! We are a block away.

What started off as a uncharted journey turned out to be finding the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. We ended up at Brix Pizza and Wine Bar (2747 S. Hulen, Fort Worth). Close your eyes for a second. Well, after you read this. The sky is clear. The weather is perfect and hovering around the low 70's. The small, but, romantically lit patio is inviting and a table summons us to sit down as if it had been waiting all day for us to arrive.

I'll get to the food in a second, but, equally impressive was our server. Leo...correction...Leonardo. "Leonardo" said with a strong Italian accent. He would go on to make our evening a great one. But, it was late and what did we come for? Food!

Opting for salads to start, me with the Caesar and +1 went with the Brix Salad. Both excellent choices. While their menu is somewhat extensive, deciding was easy as this had been discussed en route. We were going with the Margherita pizza. But, the menu threw us a hitch in our giddy up. Right below the Margherita was the Brix Signature Pizza. On the menu, both are listed with the exact same ingredients...Tomato Sauce, Mozzarella and Fresh Basil. After getting clarity from Leo, the Brix Signature Pizza was the way to go. The only difference was that this one was prepared with fresh, homemade mozzarella. Oh my!

What came out was a pizza that was reminiscent of being in Italy. A thin, crispy crust topped with the freshest ingredients and Brix had two happy campers. While full might be what my stomach was telling me, something prompted me to ask Leonardo about dessert. He mentioned three amazing-sounding options. Those being Tiramisu, Cannoli and Nutella Pizza. I believe I even whimpered when "Nutella" was mentioned, but, it was his reaction to the Cannoli that led us to that one. Like the rest of the meal, it did not disappoint. And, like the rest of the meal, there were no remnants of food left on the plate.

This was definitely one of those evenings where the planets were aligned. Perfect weather, inviting atmosphere, wonderful food and an ambiance that screamed 'Date Night!" Thank you, Universe, for delivering all of the above-mentioned. And, thank you for Brix!
http://www.brixpizzeria.com

Fort Worth Date Night: You had me at "chicken-fried steak!" (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

September 25, 2009

On a recent birthday celebration with my "random" group of friends from high school, I learned that friends should never be taken for granted. In the same lightbulb moment, it also struck me that food also should not be taken for granted. Like an old college entrance exam question, can I now deduce that food is equal to a friend? I've always known that food is my friend. And, in sad or down times, perhaps, even my best friend.

In my world, there is no better comfort food than anything fried. The State Fair of Texas is nearing and much of the media focus is on the fried offerings from the Fair. Mouth-watering selections such as fried Snickers, fried peanut butter and jelly and this year's all abuzz about fried butter. My first thought was, "Yech!" That is, until I saw it being made on a morning show. Now, my opinion has changed. I'm actually looking forward to trying that artery-blocking concoction.

But, I'm a little more traditional. I am partial to the good ol' chicken-fried steak (CFS). Very simply, a steak that is breaded and fried. While I try to watch my girlish figure, every few months I crave chicken-fried steak. Well, my yearning has been yelling at me, as of late. Thank goodness for a friend's birthday celebration to fill my unanswered prayer.

We recently found ourselves at Grady's Restaurant (2443 Forest Park Blvd.). Well-known restauranteur and chef, Grady Spear's, newest eatery. As a lifelong resident of Fort Worth, I was immediately brought back to the days of when Le Chardonnay filled this locale. Even as a youngster, I always loved this space. It was quaint, quiet and the ambiance was soothing. Grady's has not lost that. On a rainy, stormy night, it was calm, cozy and comfortable.

Upon perusing the menu, could I really have anything else but the chicken-fried steak? C'mon! This is what Grady is known for. Besides, my buddy, Big Dave, was just as excited about the chicken-fried steak as a kid waking up on Christmas morning. We had to do this together. We had to have a male bonding moment and share the CFS experience. Much like two fraternity brothers going through pledgeship together.

So, the CFS arrives and it really was picture-worthy. If the statement that everything is bigger in Texas is true, then, the CFS from Grady's won't disappoint. This bad boy is massive. But, forget about the size. What about the taste and quality? I'm going to have to go with two big thumbs up. Wow! Great quality steak, perfectly breaded and topped with a perfect cream gravy. Not to mention, it was all resting comfortably on a bed of green onion mashed potatoes. Big Dave and I left no evidence of our gluttony. For any of you who were Friends watchers, we definitely needed the maternity pants that Joey wore when he bet that he could finish the Thanksgving turkey.

Everyone else loved what they ordered. Some went with entrees and others loaded up on appetizers. If you are looking for a fantastic meal, a romantic setting and an environment that will allow you two to really connect, Grady's will be the perfect choice. I'm pretty sure the famous foodie, Charlie Trotter, summed up my experience precisely when he said, "All four elements were happening in equal measure – the cuisine, the wine, the service and the overall ambience. It taught me that dining could happen at a spiritual level."

Fort Worth Date Night: I Got You Babe! (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

July 23, 2009

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If you are single or, when you were single, what is the one date you could always fall back on? Dinner and a movie, right? It might be a little boring and predictable, but, it’s safe. Obviously, there are pros and cons. The upside is that it is a reliable date. While monotonous, you don’t have to be creative and the decision to go can be made at the last minute. The major downside is, if you are watching a movie, you are not talking. However, some things are better left unsaid. You can always do a little hand holding or a gentle touch to let her know how you are feeling. Also, a movie may be so good, you guys can talk about it after. This week’s Date Night will give you two something to talk about for days.

We are going to take a little road trip. It’s not far and just a short drive to the northeast. Every summer, the town of Frisco hosts “Movies in the Square.” What a cool concept! The movies are projected on a giant, 26’ x 13’ inflatable movie screen located on Simpson Plaza in Frisco Square and admission is free. Live, pre-show entertainment begins at 8:30 p.m. on most movies nights. You are encouraged to bring lawn chairs or blankets and refreshments to enjoy the outdoor movies in comfort. Popcorn will be available for a nominal fee.

The movie this week is the 1995 classic, Babe. This Friday, July 24, check out this flick about a pig beautifully set in Australia. Babe was nominated for six Academy Awards and won one for visual effects. Jeff Shannon perfectly described this movie when he wrote, “Babe is all about the title character, a heroic little pig who's been taken in by the friendly farmer Hoggett (Oscar nominee James Cromwell), who senses that he and the pig share “a common destiny.” Babe, a popular mischief-maker on the Australian farm, is adopted by the resident border collie and raised as a puppy, befriended by Ferdinand the duck (who thinks he's a rooster), and saves the day as a champion "sheep-pig."

Between here and Frisco, there are a ton of great restaurant choices where you can “pig” out. Just don’t eat too much. No one wants to hear you “squeal” during the movie. Of course, it is a public place, so, be careful about the “swine” flu. I know; I know…stop with the bad pig puns! Well, start planning your Date Night for this weekend. In other words, get shakin’, “Bacon!”

For complete information on Movies in the Square, please visit Frisco Square’s official site: www.friscosquare.com

Fort Worth Date Night: Quit monkeying around

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

May 21, 2009

One of the greatest aspects of growing up in Fort Worth is all that it has to offer.  It has great restaurants, a diverse culture, warm people and for me, great memories. For some, many thoughts from the past are triggered by smells. For example, I clearly remember driving down Interstate-30 when Mrs Baird’s Bakery was still there. Rolling down your window was not necessary to smell that fresh-baked bread. If it wasn’t on a freeway, it would have been so great just to stop and smell the bread as if it was a bouquet of freshly picked flowers (or, since I’m a guy, a hot-off-the-grill burger from Kincaid’s).

Some smells are not as remarkable, but, still prompt the remembrance of great experiences. For example, depending on where you were around the Fort Worth Zoo, it would most certainly be better to be upwind than downwind. No need to go further into detail; I believe you catch my drift (pun intended). Still, it doesn’t mean that the zoo wasn’t a huge part of my childhood. And, many memories there are ones I’ll have forever.

Fort Worth has always had a great zoo. And now it is even better. Did you know that we have one of the top-ranked zoos in the country? The improvements and additions in the last few years make it difficult to pass up. The zoo is broken up into 12 different permanent exhibit areas:  Penguins, World of Primates, Asian Falls, Raptor Canyons, Cheetahs, Flamingo Bay, Meerkat Mounds, Australian Outback, African Savannah, Parrot Paradise, the Herpetarium and Texas Wild!

A favorite guilty pleasure is watching Meerkat Manor on Animal Planet. These animal shows know how to hook you. You’re flipping through the channels and before you know it, an hour later, you are expert on the reproduction of an African wasp. Meerkat Manordoes the same thing. These little critters are so cute, yet fascinating at the same time. Which is why I probably spend the most time at the Fort Worth Zoo watching the meerkats. Their exhibit is great. Where else can you practically get eye-to-eye with a family of them and be a voyeur into their fascinating world?

But let’s not forget the classics of the zoo, either. Elephants, gorillas, penguins, cheetahs, hippos and so much more. In Texas, the daily temperature is quickly rising. You may not want to be out in the heat in the middle of summer. Most animals sure don’t. So, right now, the Fort Worth Zoo makes for the perfect date.  There are animals for him and ones only she could adore. Block out a couple of hours and take a stroll through this great animal sanctuary that Fort Worth has shared with us. And, remember…bring a camera, pack sunscreen, turn off your iPhone and, ladies, you are not allowed to purchase and/or take home any of the tenants of the zoo.

For complete information on the Fort Worth Zoo, please visit their website. www.fortworthzoo.com

Fort Worth Date Night: Café Aspen hits the Big 2-0! (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG
April 15, 2009

English writer, Aldous Huxley, once wrote, “Facts do not cease to exist just because they are ignored.” The fact remains that Café Aspen is still here. Fort Worth has seen its share of eateries come and go. The only thing Café Aspen has done over the last 20 years is expand in size and maintain its fan base.  With the 747 (approximation) new restaurants either already opened or planning to open this year on the west side of Fort Worth, the odds are stacked against them. To be open 20 years in the restaurant industry is impressive.

What started off as a small restaurant on West Seventh Street exactly 20 years ago is now an established fixture on Camp Bowie.  Like many businesses, it has gone through several overhauls. It has arguably one of the most quaint, romantic bar areas in town. Also impressive is their newest addition added a few years back, their outdoor patio/bar. 

Back to the facts. The fact that owner, David Rotman, is not from Fort Worth should not be held against him. Originally from Austin, he’s more or less a Fort Worthian.  I’m not sure we could get rid of him if we tried. He was not only a TCU Horned Frog, but, a little known fact is that David was a cheerleader while attending. GO FROGS! The fact that Rotman has an amazing support system around him also speaks volumes for Café Aspen. Dedicated and loyal staff…check.  Loving and amazing wife, Andrea…check.  Beautiful and adorable daughter, Lucinda…check.  You can’t argue with the facts.

Since this week marks a milestone for Café Aspen and Mr. Rotman, David has decided to give back to the community as a sign of appreciation for 20 years of patronage. Through April 18 you can get the Pepper Crusted Beef Tenderloin for only $12.95.  One of Aspen’s best sellers, the menu describes this beef dish as “Pepper crusted beef tenderloin, pan seared and finished in the oven. Topped with a roasted garlic and bleu cheese sauce.  Paired with grilled portabello mushrooms and roasted fingerling potatoes.”  If this alone doesn’t draw you two in for this week’s Date Night, I’m not sure what will. 

Since April 17 is the actual anniversary date of Café Aspen, there is also this one-day offer that is equally generous.  Friday only, all entrees are 20 percent off.  Let me repeat that.  All entrees are 20 percent off. This doesn’t mean the total bill, drinks, desserts, T-shirts or anything else.  Just the entrees.  Also, there will be no double-dipping.  If you take advantage of the $12.95 beef tenderloin, you cannot take 20 percent off that.  David is generous; he’s not stupid.

If you have never been to Café Aspen or it has been a while, please stop by and give it a try. At the least, congratulate David Rotman on an accomplishment that very few in this town have been able to achieve.  Not many people stay in their jobs for 20 years. Most marriages don’t last 20 years. And, we all know the usual fate of a new restaurant. But, Café Aspen has done it. And, done it with class, grace and consistency. Great job, David!  Salud!

Fort Worth Date Night: A little fuzzy & a little fishy (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

March 26, 2009

Many, many years ago, I found myself in Puerto Vallarta.  Well, perhaps, I wasn't really lost, I was with friends during a college spring break. A beautiful hotel, the ocean, open markets...this was going to be a relaxing week.

Upon arrival to the hotel room, my friend, Pigeon, and I immediately began to unpack. Midway through the only work planned for the week, I see Pigeon lose his balance and he and his suitcase go flying across the room. As a naive college lad, I chalked it up to too many Dos Equis on the flight over. But, about the time of his tumble, I felt something, too. As it turns out, we had experienced a minor earthquake. Perhaps, a foreshadowing of the week to come.

We enjoyed the beaches during the day and were off to the clubs at night. On one of our first nights, we were invited to a "fiesta" at a local hotel.  Let me set the scene. A pool, a bunch of tables with chairs, a buffet and a mariachi band.  To gain entrance to this party, two things must take place. First, you pay 10 bucks. Next, and this should have been the red flag, we were given a homemade shot glass, tied to a lanyard, put around our neck and this "art project" is filled with tequila. Mind you, we are not talking about a tequila considered "high grade." 

Over the next couple of hours, it was all about eating, shots, dancing, shots, more eating and, then...shots, shots and more shots. At some point, I remember donning a sombrero, a beautifully woven Mexican sarape and jumping on stage with the Mariachi band. I'm not sure many of the band members were actually in sync as they were laughing too hard from me continuously yelling, "Borracho!" (see Spanish dictionary) The pictures have been destroyed and, until writing this article, so were the memories.

The next morning, we found a local cafe and I was introduced to one of the greatest dishes. It was fish tacos.  Warm corn tortillas filled with lightly fried white fish, white cheese and homemade salsa. This was a big plate of love and, more importantly, helped in making the night before go away.

Since then, let's hope that I've grown wiser and more mature. I still don't partake in tequila to this day. However, I have not lost my affinity for fish tacos or fish burritos. Which is why Fort Worth is so lucky to have Fuzzy's Taco Shop (2917 W Berry St., Fort Worth).  Their menu is extensive.  Whether it be one of my favorites, the potato, egg and cheese burrito or my VERY favorite, the tempura fish burrito...everything I've consumed at Fuzzy's is fantastic. Let's get back to the fish burrito. A giant burrito filled with delicately cooked tempura-coated fish.  I prefer mine with only guacomole, lettuce and cheese.  Fuzzy's is very accomodating and will prepare your dish to your liking. 

Fuzzy's Taco Shop is located near TCU, not far from the intersection of Berry and University. It is very casual and extremely affordable. More importantly, you'll feel as though you are dining in an authentic Mexican eatery. The perfect place no matter if you are on a date or recovering from one. And, should we meet there, I can guarantee that I will not be the one wearing a sombrero.  A lamp shade, maybe...but, definitely not a sombrero.  Buenos Dias!

Fuzzy’s also has locations in Denton, Arlington and on Race Street in northeast Fort Worth. www.fuzzystacoshop.com

Fort Worth Date Night: Chocolate...shaken, not stirred (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

March 18, 2009

I'm not sure why I like chocolate. Actually, I'm not sure why I love chocolate.  From the moment it crossed my lips as a young child...I was hooked.  It would have been nice for it to just have been a passing fad...much like pet rocks, sea monkeys or MC Hammer pants. But, it never went away. It only became stronger; more intense. It has turned into a love affair!  It can best be defined by a very famous author, Anonymous, who once said, "Forget love ... I'd rather fall in chocolate!"

On a recent outing with some friends that date back to my high school days, I discovered something I didn't even know I was looking for. A random group met up for drinks first. Most went with the typical, frosty beer. I ventured out of my box a little and chose the Blue Moon on draught (with the orange wedge). Good call!  But, it only gets better.

Much like a scavenger hunt, we all got in our respective cars and drove around until we found an agreed upon Mexican eatery. Again, most of us going with the traditional beer as our dinner drink selection.

After dinner, it was time for one more stop. Little did I know my life was about to change (cue the dramatic music).  The group decided on Michael's on 7th St.  We found a table in the bar.  Expecting to go with a glass of wine to top the evening off, when it came time to order, a question emerged from the tip of my tongue that would forever change my existence.

I looked up to see our server, a blue-eyed girl with a very cool, trendy, short and somewhat disheveled haircut. When she asked for our drink orders, for whatever reason, I merely inquired, "How is your chocolate martini?" Her reaction was genuine and priceless.  In what appeared to be slow motion...her eyes closed, the eyelids fluttered and I believe she let out a barely audible "Mmmm."  A little different, but, a reaction much similar to the "I'll have what she's having" scene in When Harry Met Sally.  No need for discussion.  "I'll have one of those."

As I muttered those words, I failed to realize that sitting next to me was David D., an old friend whom I've known since elementary school but, just recently reconnected. When you look up "Dude" in the dictionary, David's picture prominently appears...along with golf clubs, a John Deere tractor and some raw meat. He was speechless and looked at me as if I had just summoned her to be bring me a pink ballet tutu and a copy of Cosmo. I'd bet he has never been around a women who had ever ordered an alcoholic beverage with chocolate as the primary ingredient, much less, a guy. Commence the ribbing.

So, the drinks arrive and I'm like Pavlov's dog...my mouth foaming more than the actual martini.  I was not led astray.  This may have been one of the best chocolate martinis ever to meet my palate.  As a usual dessert person, this more than sufficed.  Needless to say, I grasped onto to my Man Card due to the fact that, as I finished my martini, I noticed something red and round at the bottom of the glass.  Before I could conceal it, the "Dude" next me realized it was a cherry.  As if the drink wasn't feminine enough?

If you are a chocolate lover, this martini will hit the spot. And, Michael's is more than glad to have you for dinner or just a nightcap.  So, if you are planning a date around chocolate or just using it as a pick-me-up, I leave you with this.  Dave Barry, well-known humor columnist, summed it up perfectly when he once wrote, "My therapist told me the way to achieve true inner peace is to finish what I start. So far today, I have finished two bags of M&M's and a chocolate cake. I feel better already."

Fort Worth Date Night: Oh Goody! (FW Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

March 11, 2009

There is something to be said about choices.  Every single day we are confronted with them. For many of us, it's what to wear, what to eat, who to date and with whom to spend the rest of our lives. It can be overwhelming. What once was an easy decision, a trip to a fast food restaurant can now have you staring at the menu like a puppy that hears an odd noise and turns its head sideways.

I recently had the overwhelming feeling when I visited a liquor store in the southwest part of Fort Worth. It's called Goody Goody Liquor (4740 SW Loop 820). The overwhelm quickly turned to "impressed" as I strolled through the 40,000 square feet of this "Adult Beverage Superstore!"  It's like a Toys-R-Us for grownups. Let me preface this by saying that I am in no way encouraging the consumption of alcohol.  Do not shoot the messenger! This is just hardcore reporting at its best. Back to the libations.

From the parking lot, you will think you are just walking into any ol' store in a strip center. This will quickly go away when you physically enter Goody Goody. The finish out is unlike any I've seen in a liquor store. And, the sheer size of the locale and volume of selections is impressive. So, you start through your wine journey.  The wines are separated by regions. Each "room" is designed as if you are in a specific wine's origin. As you meander through this maze of VinoMania, there is a good chance that you’ll actually think you are in Tuscany or Bordeaux.

I'm a wine lover. Red wine, white wine, champagne....whatever!  And, have often bought a bottle I've never tried based on the appearance of the label.  This is the reason that I have picked Goody Goody Liquor as an actual Date Night selection. You and your significant other will have a blast perusing the vast offerings. If you have no place to be, then, you guys will get lost in time walking in and out of the different rooms and up and down each aisle.

And, I haven't even mentioned that they are a full liquor store. So, if it's beer or the harder stuff you are in search of, there are plenty of choices for you, as well.  The staff are friendly, knowledgeable and readily available. And, once you make your selection, don't forget you are super close to Palio's Pizza Cafe or Prima's Pasta & Pizza...both BYOW (Bring Your Own Whatever!).

The Bachelor: After the Final Rose! The Most Controversial Blog Post EVER!

It's been a week since America "officially" found out about who The Bachelor, Jason Mesnick, picked as his final choice.  Well, so we thought.  I've been going back and forth on whether to write this blog entry.  I finally gave in.  So, here it is.  I am happy for Jason from this season of The Bachelor.

 

As not popular as this is, it's my blog and I can write if I want to.  Trust me, I've seen the status updates on Facebook and heard the radio call-ins.  People are pissed.  Especially, the female gender.  Anyone who knows me knows that I have tons of female friends, usually side with women and often see things from the girls' angle.

 

I also loved Melissa from The Bachelor.  She's one of those unique girls where guys want her and girls want to be BFFs with her.  She's a guy's girl.  Naturally gorgeous, loves sports and is totally fine with hanging out.  And, her goal in life is to have a family, marry her best friend and please him.  Sign me up!  She's in Dallas and I'm in Fort Worth.  The demographics work out perfectly.

 

I guess I should back up if you didn't watch The Bachelor this season.  The producers picked the runner-up from The Bachelorette the season prior.  His name is Jason.  One of the reasons I was so interested in watching this season is that Jason reminds me a lot of me...a good guy.  Not edgy, not dangerous...not boring, but, responsible and genuine. 

 

So, Jason dates 25 girls throughout 6 weeks or so and, by the end of all this, hopes he finds his wife and future step-mother to his young son, Ty.  Fast forward to the end of the show.  He's left to pick between Molly and Melissa.  He goes with Melissa.  Drops to one knee, pops the question, finally tells her he loves her...the whole nine yards.  Fast forward 6 weeks.  Jason has a change of heart at the reunion show and breaks up with Melissa and picks Molly.  The world is pissed!  You would have thought that someone told President Obama that he wasn't the president of the free world any longer and McCain has taken his spot.  At any time, Ashton Kutcher comes out and punks the president.

 

So, at this final reunion show, Jason officially breaks up with Melissa and tells her he still has feelings for Molly.  Melissa is livid, gives the ring back, yadda, yadda, yadda...commercial break...Molly comes out.  Jason tells her he still loves her, she's is shocked, they talk...ride off into the sunset like an old western.

 

Let me say that I was, and still am, a huge fan of Melissa.  Dude...she's hot!  But, so sweet and you just rooted for her.  It was obvious that Jason was crazy about her, too.  So, why did he pick her if he wasn't going to stay with her?  And, embarrass her on national tv?

 

That was not Jason's intent.  However, these relationships begin and end on the most bizarre circumstances.  Who has a first date where you are flown to another state and get a helicopter tour of the city, wrapping up with a celebrity coming out to give you a private concert?  Oh, and I did I mention that these contestants are living in a mansion?  Who wouldn't get completely engrossed in all that?

 

Here's what I'm thinking...  Jason shouldn't have proposed.  But, hindsight is 20/20.  At the time, I believe that is what he felt.  Then, the cameras were off and they really got to know each other.  Something clicked in his head and thought, "I can't go through with this."  You have to commend him for following his heart.  Did it suck that the breakup was on national tv?  Absolutely!  Was it horrible that he broke up with America's newest sweetheart, in general?  Yes!  The ironic part of that was that week in and week out, we rooted for Jason to break up with some of the girls.  Some of us yelling at our TVs. (not me)

 

There is also a buzz going around that Jason and Molly had contact between them before the actual reunion show.  I'm guessing..."probably happened."  Apparently, Jason broke up with Melissa a week before the reunion show.  And, officially ended things on the show.  Now, everyone is mad at Molly.  "Homewrecker!"  People...give me a break!

 

Molly wasn't my favorite.  However, after watching all that transpired, Jason and Molly belong together.  And Melissa can't be too heartbroken.  She apparently is dating someone from her past.  Ironically, his name is "Ty."  Sound familiar?  What's strange is that Melissa talked about never picking the right guy and now she's gone back to someone in her past.  So, maybe Jason did make the right choice.

 

Now, Melissa is rumored to be a last-minute fill-in on this year's Dancing with the Stars.  So, if she is completely hurt and devasted, then, she is getting over it by throwing herself back in the limelight.  It sounds like Melissa is going to be just fine. 

 

Here's the real question to ask yourself.  Why does this show strike such a nerve?  Do people watch and are displacing their personal feelings towards Jason based on their past.  Without going into psychology, displacement can best be described as you've had a long day, traffic sucked coming home and you had a flat tire. You're livid!  You get out of the car, are greeted by your sweet cat and with one swift kick, the cat goes flying over the house.  You weren't actually mad at the cat, but, you took it out on the cat.

 

Perhaps, Jason's actions have prompted the same emotion in millions of people.  He represents the guy who dumped you for another girl, the husband who didn't want to be married any longer or the "typical" male that gives so many guys a bad name.  Or, it could be that since we had preconceived notions that Jason was a good, decent, genuine nice guy, we are doubly disappointed in him?  And, throw in the fact that we all loved Melissa and it makes for a messy situation.

 

We have to remember that is "reality" TV.  Because what we see on TV is real, right?  Not!  I was fortunate to have done a reality show a couple of years ago.  Fortunate because it took place in Bora Bora.  But, the experience was not all that great.  I can remember spending 2 hours driving around Santa Monica.  For the first hour, I had the camera man next to me and the producer in the back seat.  All while I had fake phone conversations on my mobile phone.  Then, more of the same for the next hour so they could get a different angle, the producer was in the passenger seat and the camera was in the backseat.  Over the next 5 days, this scenario was played over and over again.  I have no doubt that it wasn't any different for The Bachelor.  And, I won't even get into editing.

 

Here's what I wish for...  (1) Jason, Molly and Ty live happily ever after. (2) Melissa and her "Ty" live happily ever after.  And, if not, and you know Melissa, please give her my contact info and (3) that the month of May would hurry up and get here because I can not WAIT until The Bachelorette starts and we get to see Jillian go through this process all over again!  I LOVE her and I LOVE this darn show!!!

Fort Worth Date Night: It’s all about ME! (Fort Worth Business Press)

BY MIKE BLOOMBERG

March 05, 2009

Last Friday was my birthday.  I’m not the type to get excited about birthdays.  Everyone around me gets excited.  Me...not so much. A few weeks out, the questions and e-mails started, “Are you looking forward to the big day?”  And, this wasn’t even a big one. I suppose that, growing up, I never wanted to look forward to something just in case I was disappointed. This transferred over to adulthood. I’m very baseline when it comes to the excitement level in regards to my personal celebrations.

Back to last Friday.  PR Chick asked me weeks out to take me to lunch on my birthday. Her birthday actually fell the day after, so, we were looking at a mini-combination celebration. However, since lunch was transpiring on my actual birthday…the focus was on me. PR Chick lives in Dallas and we decided to meet in Fort Worth. After much thought, I chose Lili’s Bistro on Magnolia. I’ve heard about this place, read about it, sent clients there, but, had never personally experienced what all the fuss was about.

So, last Friday was the big day. I arrive to see PR Chick holding a huge “birthday-looking” gift bag. I already love Lili’s. It’s not a big place.  And, everyone in Fort Worth must have gotten the same memo as there was a bit of a wait.  I’m not a big fan of waiting, but, we were already there, that was the plan and nothing was going to change. I’m eating at Lili’s!

After we were finally seated and given menus, I did what anyone else would have done. I ripped into my birthday bag. Then, it was time to focus on the matter-at-hand. It was time to order. The menu is diverse, but, EVERYTHING on it sounded amazing. People waiting around us talked up the burgers.  I was really leaning towards the Tilapia tacos. However, when it came time to make the decision, I went with the sesame seed chicken. As long as the wait was, the order seemed to come out pretty quickly. I was not disappointed.  And, the portions are huge. Two of my favorite things…large portions and great food! 

The perfectly-crusted chicken was sitting on a bed of rice. However, one of the most impressive parts of the plate was what came with the entrée. A basic lettuce wedge with a Gorgonzola dressing and bacon crumbles.  Sounds pretty ho-hum, right?  PR Chick and I both agreed that we could have eaten just a large plate of the salad. By the way, PR Chick ordered salmon and was “Mmmm-ing” equally as much as I was. However, the “Mmmm’s” turned to “Ahhhh’s” when dessert arrived.

We went with the Rocky Roady Fudge Torte. Words can’t really do it justice.  Perhaps, the menu says it’s best… “Chocolate chip cookie crust, Belgian chocolate, butter, cream cheese and almond middle, and a cream cheese frosting top. Drizzled with chocolate ganache.” My first bite was pretty intense.  So many things going on at one time. It was time to turn our lunch into a CSI crime scene and unlock each mystery layer one-by-one. After dissecting this cake and sent walking with a full belly and a bag of birthday presents, there was only one thing that could top lunch at Lili’s Bistro on Magnolia…a birthday nap!

What's your Schlotzsky's?

There are many questions, comments and pressures that come with the title of "The Romance CEO."  The pressure being that, since I am single, people often wonder if every date with me has to rival an episode of The Bachelor.  Perhaps, a helicopter ride to lunch or a horse-drawn carriage ride through the streets of downtown to a privately catered dinner.  And, during dinner, Michael Buble serenades us with his hits.  The answer to this is a categorical "Uhhhhh...NO!"

 

While these amazing dates make for great TV, they don't necessarily define romance.  We often hear the phrase, "don't sweat the small stuff."  When it comes to romance, I believe that "the small stuff" is exactly what you should focus on.  In a recent article, I mentioned Valentine's Day being an important day.  While you should do "something" for your special someone on this day, picking up flowers from the grocery store at the last minute, fighting crowds in a restaurant and grabbing a box of chocolates in the checkout line does not equal romance.

 

It's what you do the other 364 days out of the year that count.  The "for no reason" gifts and the "just because" cards are the manna from heaven.  These are the nuggets that will have her or him bragging about you at the gym, at the watercooler and at the hair salon.  Whether I'm meeting with a client, doing an interview or speaking to an audience, the one thing I always stress when it comes to a marriage proposal is that it has to be all about HER.  The marriage proposal has very little to do with who is doing the asking and everything to do with who is being asked.  When you are in a relationship, this should be your mantra every day of the year.

 

And, don't worry that you'll be taken advantage of.  The favor will be returned.  Haven't you heard the expression "Do unto others as you would have done unto you?"  This is so true in relationships. 

 

During a recent trip to the gym, I got engaged (no pun intended) in a conversation with a fellow yoga buff after class. She's a woman in her 30's, but appears much younger.  She is the type of person who lights up when you talk to her and thoroughly enjoy being around.  She's married with one child.  So, I asked, "Do you have big plans for Valentine's Day?"  Without missing a beat, her huge blue eyes got bigger, her face lit up and with an overjoyed grin, said, "This is the best story!"  She proceeded to tell me that this time last year, they were doing some major construction on their home, particularly, an outdoor patio.  They finished late in the day on Valentine's Day and were starving.  Yoga Girl ran to Schlotzsky's, picked up some food, returned home and they ate it by their brand-new outdoor firepit.  Fast forward exactly one year to this Valentine's Day.

 

"Do you have big plans for Valentine's Day?"  The plan was to relive last year.  "We are going to pick up Schlotzsky's again and eat it by the firepit."  And, when I asked what they were eating, she was ecstatic to share they get a large "Original" and split it.  They have now created a memory and a tradition.  Even though money is no option, this annual experience is now something that means the world to them.

 

So, I leave you with this thought...  When you feel the pressure of "doing it right" or planning the perfect date, there is not a template.  Take the pressure off and know that there is not a universal perfect date.  What makes it perfect is that it is specific to just the two of you. With that said, the next time you go to plan a Valentine's Day date, a birthday celebration, an anniversary, a weekend away or a date for no reason at all, ask yourself, "What's YOUR Schlotzsky's?"

Fort Worth Date Night: The Sky is Falling! (FW Business Press)

Fort Worth Date Night: The Sky is Falling!

By MIKE BLOOMBERG

Feb. 18, 2009

Recently, two satellites collided in space. One of those satellites was described as a Russian military space vehicle. My immediate thought was, "I would hate to have been that driver!"  Driving along in space, minding your business and along comes an Iridium communications satellite and just ruins your day. Better call Geico.  But, there was good news. The "space vehicle" was unmanned.

A few days ago, from North Texas down to Austin, witnesses saw a fireball shooting through the sky. Initial thoughts were that it was a chunk from one of these destroyed satellites. After further review, it was determined that this "matter" was likely a meteor. A meteor the size of a truck. So, I thought, "what exactly is a meteor?"

This question led to this week's date. You are about to learn everything (and more) that you've ever wanted to know about meteors. On the campus of our beloved, Texas Christian University, lies the Oscar E. Monnig Meteorite Gallery.  According to their official website, a trip to this museum and you will "learn how to identify a meteorite, experience a hands-on encounter with different types of meteorites, and create your own terrestrial impact crater." I'm not sure what the last part means, but, as a guy, it just sounds "cool."

For location, hours and complete information, please visit:http://monnigmuseum.tcu.edu/. An audio wand is available and, the best part...FREE admission!

Fort Worth Date Night: Sans the San (FW Business Press)

Fort Worth Date Night: Sans the San
BY MIKE BLOOMBERG
December 23, 2008

Clam chowder, the Golden Gate Bridge, Ghirardelli Square and all the great hole-in-the-wall restaurants make San Francisco one of the top tourist spots in the country...if not, the world. I have been fortunate enough to visit this great city. It was not December, so, the city was not all "holidayed" out with lights. One of the top visitor attractions during December is a Christmas Light tour on a cable car. How fun would that be???

There is another Frisco and it is much closer to the DFW area. It just doesn't have a "San" in front of it. Each year, the town of Frisco proudly plays host to "Christmas in the Square." Frisco is expecting over 450,000 visitors during its run. There will be many activities going on each night from 5:30 pm to 10 pm through January 1, 2009.

Perhaps the most memorable aspect of Christmas in the Square is the Christmas lights. Their Web site describes the whole experience as, "The largest choreographed holiday lights and music display in Texas combined with family-oriented activities to produce a 'signature destination event' for Frisco."

For complete information on Christmas in the Square, please visit www.friscosquare.com.